You deserve to be heard, believed, and safe.
Domestic violence can happen to men in any kind of relationship, including gay, bisexual, straight, and trans men. Your partner’s gender, your size, or how others see you does not make abuse your fault.
You don’t have to have all the answers before asking for help.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline supports male survivors.
Confidential support is available around the clock. Advocates can listen, help you think through a safety plan, and explore local options. You can ask about services for men, including options for you and your children.
Call 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. Standard message and data rates may apply.
The Hotline: support for men ↗Use our ZIP code directory to find domestic violence programs and regional networks. Each program has its own services and eligibility. Ask what support is available for male survivors before traveling.
Start with services that include men, wherever you live.
The Public Health Agency of Canada lists support for male survivors by province and territory, including counselling, crisis support, and referrals.
A support line for men in Alberta. Call 1-833-327-6367.
Men& · service information ↗Confidential, multilingual information and referrals, with immediate crisis support for people affected by family or sexual violence. Call or text 1-800-563-0808.
VictimLinkBC · service information ↗A 24-hour line for men experiencing hardship. Dial 211 in Nova Scotia and ask for the Men’s Helpline.
211 Nova Scotia · service information ↗Regional details checked against the Public Health Agency of Canada’s resource list on October 15, 2026. These services have different coverage and eligibility; contact the organization for current information.
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In immediate danger, call 911 where available. This website is a resource directory, not a crisis service.